Having the same conversations about housework again and again? Change the conversation.

Focus on the solution, not the problem.

I chose my painting DTLA Stairway to illustrate this article because it has levels and steps. The funny thing is that I like this painting because I did not sketch it out beforehand.

If you keep having the same housework conversations with no change, this may be a sign that either, your partner secretly expects you to do all of the housework, and you sh…